Lisa-Marie has been here one week, it has been very busy. I have had the chance to meet some other Au-Pairs and even from brief meetings I feel as though Lisa-Marie is the best fit for our family.
The differences in our cultures require adjustment for Lisa-Marie. For instance in Germany they have their main meal at lunch-time. For me there is a lot of wondering if she thinks us strange! I have tried to relax and just be myself.
In teaching her all aspects of her position I am learning to explain carefully and not overload her with information. Everything I do from packing a nappy bag for an outing, to preparing lunch for the kids, she needs to learn. This can be challenging for my pregnant (muddled) brain!
It has been beneficial to see all my day to day tasks in a fresh light. I have noticed Bianca's craft box needed re-stocking with new paints and pens. Sienna's toy box has had a sort out and new play-doh has been made. My next task is to make a list of all the 'at home' activities Lisa-Marie can do with the girls, also helpful for me on those rainy home days.
This morning Bianca and I went to a puppet show at the Theatre Royal and Lisa-Marie was at home with Sienna. I thoroughly enjoyed the one on one time with my three year old, she was able to chat away to me without interruption and with my undivided attention.
So as Week 2 approaches Lisa-Marie will have her first cooking night, where she will prepare tea for the family and I will have Wednesday morning free while Lisa-Marie is in sole-charge of the girls at play-centre.
